Let’s Talk About Accountability (WT771)

Let’s Talk About Accountability (WT771)

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It always amazes me how themes seem to appear at different times.

The past month or so, the theme of Accountability has popped up enough times to be more than a coincidence.

As I prepared to present The 5 Pillars to Become an Effective Leader, I was reminded again and again to hold myself accountable.

One of the pillars is “Support for Success”.

If you look at all the successful leaders, sportspeople, politicians, business people, one thing they have in common is they haven’t gotten there alone.

Many have team members to help them, and the majority of them have coaches and mentors.

Why is that? It’s because a coach or mentor can do 4 things for you:

  1. Help you observe the blindspots and point out mistakes you’re not aware of
  2. Help you with strategy
  3. Provide you with quality questions to get you to think about things you’re not thinking about when you’re stuck, and
  4. Help keep you accountable.

One of my mentors recently brought up the subject of accountability as well.

I signed up for a 6 week challenge to help me get into action. To help me do the things I know I should be doing but could easily let myself off the hook.

As part of the challenge, each week we report on action taken. It’s there for all to see.

As my mentor put it, “Accountability equals Proof”.

That’s it. So simple.

Show me the proof.

If you said you were going to make 100 prospecting calls this week, show me your call record.

If you said you were going to walk 10km, show me some evidence.

It’s the act of showing our evidence that gets us to complete the task.

So this week, I invite you to reply with something you want to be held accountable for doing and then next week email the evidence.

Just knowing that someone is waiting to see the evidence can be motivation enough.

So, if you can’t keep yourself accountable, then seek some support for success.

Get yourself an Accountability Buddy, BUT it has to be someone whom you will allow to keep you accountable.

For example, I can say to Ross, “Don’t let me eat any chocolate this week.”

As he sees me heading for the chocolate, he will mention it. “You asked me to not let you eat chocolate.”
I smile, ignore him and continue opening the wrapper.

He will venture a second reminder, only to receive a glare in return.

He knows better than to offer a third time.

Why? Because we both know I haven’t really agreed for him to hold me accountable.

Interestingly though, if I engage a coach or mentor, then I’m absolutely giving them permission to hold me accountable and as such I hold myself accountable to do what I say I will.

How about you?

Are you able to hold yourself accountable or could you use an Accountability Buddy or Coach to help you achieve what you say you want?

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Keeping Yourself Accountable (WT517)

Keeping Yourself Accountable (WT517)

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WT517 Keeping Yourself Accountable

This week, we started our first virtual LIVE online Leading Yourself and Leading Others Experience. I was so thrilled and delighted that the group passed their very first homework assignment.

“Big Deal”, you might be thinking.

Yes it is a big deal. It’s a very big deal. In over 10 years of facilitating this experience, there have only been about 3 or 4 groups that have actually passed some of the homework and only one group that passed ALL of the homework activities.

By doing the homework, participants learn what it means to be both a member of a team and to lead a team. One of the key lessons is Accountability.

What I’ve found is that there are very few people who can hold themselves accountable to finish tasks or projects, or at times even start projects. 

It seems we need to check in with someone else BUT not just anyone.

Ross and I find it very difficult to keep each other accountable. We may decide we want to do something or stop doing something and then when we falter, we let each other off the hook. We are not holding each other accountable. 

This is the reason why people join gym groups or have personal trainers. It’s what they need to make sure they show up and do the work. 

It’s what your team members require from you, the Leader. They want to know you have their back and will keep them accountable to complete their tasks or work according to the procedures.

Even your kids want to know you are watching and will hold them accountable.

Having to share your progress with another person is the best way I know to help you get something done.

Who is your accountability buddy?

Who can you ask if you don’t currently have someone?

What is it you want to achieve or complete?

How can your accountability buddy help you?

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