Of course I’m not talking about you.
This is what I’ve been saying to myself the past few days; even though I know better than to do that.
Sometimes my ability to criticise myself astounds me.
I’ve been working day and night to make sure I have everything ready for our launch today for the Leading Yourself and Leading Others Membership Site.
I have pushed myself to learn about 4 or 5 new software programs to make sure they all talk to each other.
I was setting up the member logins and wanted to simply add their details to the new site.
There was an action step that generated a Welcome email, which I did not want to send.
Without realising that I had duplicate automation sequences, of course I chose the one that included the Welcome email and away it went before I realised.
“Damn!” (Well I said worse than that.)
“Quick, send another email to make sure the members don’t try and login with the details in that email.”
I quickly put together an explanation and again, hit Send, only to find, to my horror, that in my haste, I had forgotten to update the Subject Line which was announcing our next Leading Yourself and Leading Others Experience in August in Newcastle.
There was nothing I could do.
My Inner Critic had a field day.
“You’re such an idiot.” “How embarrassing?” “How could you have been so stupid?” “What will people think?”
On and on and on it went, until I screamed “Enough!” “Stop it!”
“Yes, I made a mistake. In fact I made two mistakes in quick succession. That doesn’t mean I give up. I’m learning. People will forgive me. Let’s look at all the things I’ve done right over the past few weeks to get this ready.”
Does this happen to you, too? Is your Inner Critic quick to judge and call you names?
If so, here’s a tip I learned from Jack Canfield a long time ago. He taught us to turn our Inner Critic into an Inner Coach. The critic is there to help us improve, so we can thank it and let it know we’re aware of what needs to be changed or improved and we’re working on it. The name calling can stop.
Understanding that the critic only wants the best for us and for us to do well and achieve our goals makes it a little easier to bear when they can be so detailed with their improvement list.
I’m curious. What strategies do you use to silence your Inner Critic?