At times, we don’t always believe in ourselves and this can hold us back from achieving our full potential.
I remember years ago, when Ross’ supervisor was promoted, he wanted to nominate Ross to take over his position. At first Ross was hesitant.
“No thanks. I just want to do my work. I don’t want to supervise anyone. I’m not management material,” he protested.
With a little encouragement from me, he reluctantly took the role.
When he began, he had few leadership skills and zero experience. He joined one of my Leading Yourself and Leading Others experiences and immediately started applying what he learned and within a short time, became an exceptionally good leader.
The guys he supervised complimented him and remarked how much they appreciated his loyalty to them.
A few years later, it was Ross’ turn to nominate someone to take over his position. Sadly, his choice didn’t believe in himself and wouldn’t borrow Ross’ belief, so he turned down the opportunity. Six month’s later, at a work reunion, he shared how much he regretted that decision.
In the past few weeks, I’ve witnessed a similar scenario where upper management have offered the opportunity to participate in our Leadership experience to some of their middle managers who disappointingly declined the opportunity.
Upper management believed in their people and were happy to invest in them. They were shocked when one employee attempted to negotiate for the training investment to be spent on technical training which would have benefitted the employee, not necessarily the company or the team they lead.
If you find a similar thing happening in your workplace, ask yourself whether you need to give your people the benefit of the doubt and teach them the rules of the game or encourage them or find out whether they fit the category of those who really do not wish to be managers.
It’s been an interesting couple of weeks.
When you have someone who believes in you, say ‘Thank You’ and accept the opportunity.
In the meantime, know that I believe in you.