He’s Not Getting The Job (WT768)
BlogRecently we had some storm damage, nothing like Cyclone Alfred up north, but enough to have to get the bay windows resealed and fixed.
We used Hipages to request quotes from qualified tradespeople.
One man called straight away on the Friday. We’ll call him Jack. Jack quoted $850 to come and do the work the next day, (Saturday) which was forecast to be raining.
We were a little surprised that:
- He quoted without looking at the job
- He could get there the next day.
What thoughts would you have about a tradesperson who isn’t booked out weeks or months in advance?
Anyway, Ross told him another person was coming to look at the job on Monday and that he would let him know.
Jack called again on the Saturday to see if he could come and do the job.
Ross reminded him that he had organised another quote for Monday.
Jack called again Monday morning.
He either didn’t hear or didn’t listen.
When Ross told me about Jack, I responded with, “Well he’s not getting the job.”
Jack might have been a good tradesperson.
Jack’s quote might have been fair and reasonable. It was actually half of what we ended up paying.
Jack didn’t get the job because he didn’t listen.
Ross also had a similar experience with another supplier.
Frustrated at the end of a phone call, he said, “I still haven’t finished a sentence”.
Listening is different to hearing.
You use your ears to hear. You use all of you to listen and best of all, your relationships will improve out of sight if you learn to Actively Listen.
Active Listening is a skill and a skill I wish everyone would learn.
When you Active Listen to others you are demonstrating that you heard and understood what they said. This means you repeat back to them what you think they said.
It doesn’t mean you are agreeing with what they say.
When people know that you heard and understood them they can move on and share more with you. They also trust that you did in fact hear them, listen to them and take in what they were telling you.
Your mission this week is to check yourself.
Are you behaving like Jack or the other supplier and not letting your clients, colleagues or family members finish their sentences?
Are you waiting to speak rather than listening?
Are you talking over them?
I sincerely hope not, because you may find that you too are frustrating others and therefore don’t get the job.
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