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Don’t Do That (WT697)
Last week I shared that I was anxious about going to the gym. I also mentioned that I had been waiting for over a week for someone to call me to book in a training session. Here’s the rest of the story. If you’re in business or customer service, don’t do this: On the day we joined, I asked if someone could show me how to use the equipment. The lady on reception said to go on to the website and book in a session. A few days later I went to the website. I couldn’t see where to book it in. I sent a message through the contact page. I got an automatic reply and a personal reply from the lady on...
Don’t Overthink It (WT696)
Maybe this resonates with you. The alarm went off and I hit the snooze button. I was reluctant to get out of bed. “I’m nervous”, I turned to Ross. “How come?” he asked. Today was the day I was to start going to a new gym. Ross had been going to another one for about a year. I hadn’t been to a gym since we started travelling in the motorhome back in 2019. I was anxious. I had been waiting for a week for a personal trainer to get back to me because I wanted a program and to be shown how to use the equipment. I’m still waiting (that’s another business story). I shared all my insecurities with...
Already Done Already Done (WT695)
This week’s thought is a doozy. Well, I think so. Last weekend Ross was busy working with the referendum so I had the weekend to myself. I planned big things. There was sooooo much I was going to get done. I had a list of jobs I wanted to complete and the weekend came and went and I didn’t tick any off the list. Rather than being disappointed with myself or beating myself up, I was energised and excited. I sat down to read a few chapters of “The Divine Matrix” by Gregg Braden before starting my tasks and well …… Sunday night came and I picked Ross up and raced back inside to read the final...
When You’re In Enough Pain (WT694)
Have you ever bought an online program and then done nothing with it? I have. Plenty of them. Over the past few weeks I’ve been focussing on growing the coaching side of my business. It’s a real passion of mine. I love to see the transformation in people as they grow and evolve and move towards what they want. Years ago, I purchased a program to help me grow my coaching business. I listened to a few of the lessons but couldn’t bring myself to take action. I forgot about the program and thought that my membership had lapsed. That was until, seemingly out of the blue, I started getting...
Just Because You’re Thinking It (WT693)
This morning I awoke in a mood. A bad one. “Don’t talk to me, I’m in a mood”, I snapped at Ross. “I can see that”, he said. We were about to sit down and do our “levels”. This is the term the Silva Method use for relaxing and visualising and manifesting. “I can’t do it. I’m going into the bedroom and do some tapping.” With that I turned, picked up my phone and headed to the room. I know, and I trust you do by now as well, that nothing good comes from being in that state. I know that I have to get myself out of what David Bayer calls the Primal State and into the Powerful State. The Primal...
Down a Long Dark Tunnel (WT692)
I’m so blessed. I have such great people in my life and community. This week I was working with my accountant. I was sharing my desire to travel to South Africa next year to complete the Silva Method Mind Control course again. The training is being held in a game park and it has always been my goal to visit a game park. This would be an amazing experience, combining the two. I expressed a little doubt about how I can manifest this and my awareness that this doubt is what will prevent the manifestation. My accountant surprised me with his response. He said, “It’s like going down a dark...
You Don’t Have to Know (WT691)
This week Ross and I have been enjoying a road trip from Newcastle to Melbourne to Adelaide. We attended a personal development workshop with Kachina Ma’an and I want to share one of the biggest takeaways for me. We were discussing our limitations. We talked about what holds us back. One of those things is a belief or expectation that we have to know, that we have to analyse, that we have to truly understand what stops us from achieving or being what and who we want. In one short sentence, Kachina dispelled that. She said, “You don’t have to know what’s in the garbage to empty it”. Oh boy!...
Extract Those Limiting Beliefs (WT690)
The other morning Ross and I were lying in bed and talking. “I wish I could just reach in and rip out all my limiting beliefs”, I said. “Even the ones I don’t know I have.” “Why don’t you?” Ross asked. “What do you mean?” “Remember, when we did The Silva Method Course with Jeanine Sciacca and she said, the more outlandish and weird, the quicker things work?” “Yes.” “Well, why don’t you go into your mental workshop and have aliens or some other weird way to extract all your limiting beliefs?” “Wow! Yes. Thank you Ross. I can do that.” And I did. I used the Silva Method to go into my...
How Quick Can You Manifest (WT689)
When we talk about manifesting, what thoughts come to mind for you? For many of us, it’s the attainment of something we have been wanting. Whether we’ve consciously worked to create our desire, as in visualising, reciting affirmations, journaling etc. or unconsciously, where we’ve simply decided we want something and then seemingly magically it appears, according to Abraham Hicks, “Manifestation represents what you’re doing vibrationally”. In other words, you attract what is a match for your current vibration. Abraham says, “Manifestations are ideas. Thoughts are manifestations. When you’re...
What If I Train Them And They Go (WT688)
This week I was coaching with a client (we’ll call her Stacey). Stacey had some homework to submit from our previous session. She was to create a 5 minute training video using Loom.com. We’d talked about different ways to train people in previous sessions and Stacey had resisted using Loom. “I don’t like my voice. I don’t want to be seen on camera. I say ‘um’ a lot.” “Yeah, yeah, yeah. I only know one person who admits to liking their voice. When it comes to being seen, turn the camera off or even better, remember what Frank Kern taught me: “People are looking at you every day. Get over it.”...